Confusing the Barrises: Early Queer Sensibilities from 1960 and 1970s TV

Last year, I noticed that game show producer and host Chuck Barris died. Hardly anybody knows who he was. Of course, I didn’t know him personally, and I don’t think […]

Best of 2017

At a global level this is one of the worst years on record. The amount of human suffering intensified during Donald Trump’s presidency. It might be the end of the […]

October 2, 2017 – Las Vegas Prayer

I do not want to leave our apartment this morning. When something goes wrong in the world, I want to be next to Paul in our skynest with the shades […]

Letter from London

  I had been hoping to spend the summer looking at art, architecture, and design in London and other places in the EU. And then sharing what connections I could […]

The Gift of Merijane Block (May 10, 1953 – February 28, 2017)

I knew Merijane Block through the Laguna Writers Workshops organized by Chris Delorenzo. Merijane often wrote about living with cancer, and I wasn’t always comfortable with that. Occasionally, she wrote […]


When you spend most of our life in one area, you get attached to familiar retail shops and restaurants, even if you rarely enter them. They are anchors for memory, […]

Best of Year 2016

Best of 2016 This year was definitely the worst of times. But resistance to the tail end of the hegemonic order may eventually result in beauty. Just hope we live […]

Look at the Hat

Look at the hat. “Make America Great Again.” It’s no mistake that the letters are white. The real message is “Make America White Again.” Let me revise that. “Make America […]

The Cameras Are New. The Violence is Not.

I cannot bear to watch the videos of the last few days. More black men murdered by police. Police murdered by a former Army veteran. Today I am so sad […]

So Much Fog: Notes on SFMOMA’s New Wing

The San Francisco Museum of Modern Art brands its new wing as so much fog—just watch the video on its website and listen to Snøhetta’s lead architect, Craig Dykers. This […]

A Note on Orlando

On Sunday, we woke up to the news from Orlando. We have never been to Orlando. We don’t have a mental picture of it, as we did of Manhattan, Tucson, […]

It’s Just So Wrong – Part 4

A week for being pissed off.   Cowboy Boot Sandals These are so wrong I think somebody should ban them, or at least launch a social media shaming campaign. View […]

Ernest and Esther Born

This article originally appeared in Architectural Record, May 1, 2016 Charles and Ray Eames may have been the most famous Midcentury Modern design pair in the Americas, but they were not […]

It’s Just So Wrong – Part 3

Man Buns I am not the first to criticize this unfortunate fashion trend. But I will add my voice to the throngs. Men don’t look good with hair buns. There […]

Two Cents on a Sunday

As the cliché goes, this post is worth what you paid for it. I share a lot about politics on social media, but don’t write too much about it in […]

Best of 2015

As the year closes, I try and remember a few of the moments that gave me joy in the last year.   Best Meal of the Year The French Laundry […]

Designer Chatter At The Monterey Design Conference

Note: This piece appeared in The Architect’s Newspaper blog on Wednesday, October 28, 2015.  This year’s Monterey Design Conference could have been titled the “Monterey Design Short Video Clip Festival.” For […]

Reading & Writing Didion

It takes guts to write a biography of Joan Didion, one of the country’s most highly regarded writers, while she is still living. It takes even more guts when she […]

Political Purchasing Power and the Real Terrorism

The old cliché “follow the money” applies in the recent school shooting tragedies. The numbers are shocking. Very few people in the United States have been killed by terrorists. Thousands […]

It’s Just So Wrong – Part 2

Hermès and Apple The Apple watch is not elegant. Hermès leather is elegant. Together, they look stupid. Why a maker of high-end handmade saddles would join forces with a manufacturer […]